




Disability discrimination is one of the most misunderstood areas of employment law — and one of the most common complaints employees make. Whether you live with a visible condition or an invisible disability like chronic migraines, anxiety, or diabetes, you might worry: Can my boss ask what’s “wrong” with me? Can HR demand proof of my disability?
There are important limits on what employers can ask about you qualifying for disability status. Here’s what you should know if you live or work in the Garden State.
In New Jersey, employers have rights and responsibilities when it comes to disability, but so do you. The New Jersey Law Against Discrimination (NJLAD) and the federal Americans with Disabilities Act (ADA) work together to protect workers from discrimination and ensure they get the accommodations they need.
If you’re qualified to perform your job — with or without reasonable accommodation — your disability shouldn’t affect your employment opportunities. But what if your boss suspects you have a disability, or you ask for accommodations? Can they probe into your health history? The answer depends on the situation.
“The decision to speak up is powerful. But knowing what happens after — and how to protect yourself — is just as critical.”
— Olivia Rhye
Before you’re offered a job, employers cannot ask about whether you have a disability, what medications you take, or any other medical information. They also can’t ask questions designed to reveal a disability indirectly, like:
During interviews, employers are allowed to ask if you can perform the essential functions of the job — with or without reasonable accommodation — but they can’t ask how you’d do it if that question reveals a disability.
For example, they can say, “This job requires standing for 8 hours. Are you able to do that with or without an accommodation?” But they can’t ask, “Do you have back problems that would keep you from standing?”


Once you’ve been offered a job, employers can require medical exams or ask about disabilities — but only if:
This is the only stage in the hiring process when questioning disability in NJ with broad, disability-related questions is legally allowed — and even then, only if those questions are asked equally of all applicants.
After you start working, your employer can only ask about your disability if:
In each of these situations, your employer’s questions must be limited to what’s necessary to figure out whether you can do your job or need an accommodation — nothing more. They can’t demand unrelated medical history or require tests that have nothing to do with your work. This is especially important in layoffs, when improper or invasive questions during a layoff could signal disability discrimination.
Here’s what’s off-limits:
Unfortunately, these situations still happen — and when they do, they can violate NJLAD.
If you share medical information with your employer (for instance, when requesting accommodations) they must keep it confidential. The law requires your employer to store medical files separately from personnel files, limit access to those who need to know, and never disclose your condition without your permission (except in rare cases like medical emergencies).
Employers who violate confidentiality rules could face legal consequences, including fines and civil lawsuits. If you believe your privacy rights have been violated, a disability discrimination attorney in New Jersey can help you understand your options.
When your disability affects your ability to perform your job, you have the right to request reasonable accommodations. This might include:
You’ll usually need a note from your healthcare provider explaining what accommodations you need. Once you submit it, your employer must engage in an “interactive process” — an open conversation to find an effective solution.
Your employer doesn’t have to give you the exact accommodation you request if they offer an effective alternative, but they can’t refuse to accommodate you outright unless they can prove it would cause an undue hardship.
Undue hardship means the accommodation would impose significant difficulty or expense for your employer, considering factors like:
Undue hardship means an accommodation would cause significant difficulty or expense for your employer. For example, a small business might genuinely struggle to afford costly specialized equipment, while a large corporation would be expected to cover those costs. But beware: claiming “undue hardship” without real justification is one of the common excuses employers use that can violate disability rights.
If you believe your employer has questioned your disability status inappropriately, mishandled your medical information, or discriminated against you, here’s what you can do:
Living with a disability shouldn’t mean giving up your privacy or your right to work. New Jersey law gives you strong protections, but you need to know what’s allowed and what crosses the line.
The EEOC’s 2022 annual report shows that the most common disability-related complaints were about workers being fired (66.7%), with denied accommodations (55.6%) and hiring (25.9%) coming in close second and third.
If you’re uncomfortable with the questions you’re being asked or think you’re being treated unfairly — don’t ignore it.

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