




When you're dealing with a serious health issue or caring for a loved one, the last thing you need is pressure from your employer to keep the workplace running smoothly while you're away. But it happens — many workers report being told to find a leave stand-in to cover their shifts or responsibilities before they can take leave under the Family and Medical Leave Act. Is this legal?
This blog breaks down why it’s illegal for employers to make that demand, how the law protects you, what steps to take if your rights are violated, and when it's worth it to reach out to a FMLA lawyer in New Jersey.
The Family and Medical Leave Act (FMLA) is a federal law that provides eligible employees with up to 12 weeks of unpaid, job-protected leave per year for specific qualifying reasons, including:
During FMLA leave, your job is protected: your employer must return you to the same or an equivalent position once the leave ends. You also retain access to group health insurance under the same conditions.
FMLA leave is a legal right, not a favor. If you meet the eligibility requirements and have a qualifying reason, your employer is required to approve your leave. Being asked to find your own coverage or forced to work during FMLA leave may be illegal.
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According to U.S. Department of Labor, to qualify for FMLA leave in New Jersey, you must:
If you meet all three, your employer must comply with the law, and cannot create additional roadblocks.


New Jersey also has its own law — the New Jersey Family Leave Act (NJFLA) — which offers similar protections. While FMLA allows leave for your own health condition, NJFLA only covers leave to care for a family member, including children, parents, spouses, civil union partners, or someone who is the equivalent of family.
Importantly, you can sometimes take both FMLA and NJFLA leave if the reasons for leave fall under both laws. And just like FMLA, NJFLA does not allow employers to require you to find coverage before taking leave.
The U.S. Department of Labor is clear: Employers may not require employees to arrange their own leave coverage in NJ. Doing so is considered interference with your FMLA rights — a violation that could subject the employer to legal penalties.
29 CFR § 825.220(b) — “An employer is prohibited from interfering with, restraining, or denying the exercise of (or attempts to exercise) any rights provided by the Act.”
This includes subtle forms of interference, such as:
All of these tactics can create a chilling effect: making workers feel pressured, intimidated, or afraid to assert their rights. In some cases, employees may even feel pressured to stay silent or push through health issues, fearing they’ll be penalized or denied FMLA leave altogether.
Despite the clear legal line, some New Jersey employers continue to pressure workers to find coverage. Here’s why:
But again, that’s not your job. Whether you work in healthcare, retail, hospitality, or an office, it’s your employer’s responsibility to manage workloads, not yours. As long as you meet FMLA notice requirements, your right to take leave is protected under the law.
If your employer asks or pressures you to arrange coverage before approving your FMLA leave, here’s how to protect yourself:
Politely but firmly remind your employer that you are exercising your legal right under FMLA or NJFLA, and the law does not require you to secure coverage.
Example: “I understand staffing may be tight, but I believe I’m entitled to take FMLA leave under federal law. I want to make sure we’re following the proper process.”
If the request was made verbally, follow up with an email to document it. This creates a paper trail in case you need to file a legal complaint later.
Example: “Just to confirm, during our conversation today, you asked that I find coverage for my shifts before my leave can be approved. I want to clarify that under FMLA, I’m not required to do that, and I’d appreciate your confirmation that my leave will proceed without that condition.”
If your manager or direct supervisor is the problem, escalate to HR or your company’s compliance officer. Human Resources departments often have more familiarity with FMLA rules.
If your employer continues to interfere with your leave or retaliates against you (by denying the leave, cutting your hours, or firing you), it’s time to consult with an FMLA attorney in New Jersey.
It’s also unlawful for your employer to retaliate against you for exercising your rights. Employer retaliation after FMLA leave can take many forms:
If these things happen, they may be grounds for a wrongful termination or retaliation claim under federal or state law.
Consider a case where an employee scheduled for surgery requests FMLA leave for recovery time. HR responds by saying, “We’re too short-staffed — you’ll have to postpone it unless you can get someone to absorb your duties.” This type of response may amount to denied FMLA leave for surgery, which is a violation of federal law. Employers cannot legally make leave contingent on staffing arrangements or peer approvals.
This could be considered interference under FMLA — and if she’s later disciplined or let go, it could trigger a legal claim.
According to the U.S. Department of Labor, the leading FMLA violation in fiscal year 2024 was employers outright denying workers their legal right to take leave. Not far behind were cases involving retaliation — including demotions, discipline, or even termination after an employee returned from approved leave. These trends highlight a troubling reality: FMLA discrimination and backlash remain widespread in today’s workplaces.
Employers in New Jersey are not allowed to delegate staffing problems to the people who need time off most. If you’re facing pressure, retaliation, or roadblocks when trying to take FMLA or NJFLA leave, you don’t have to handle it alone.
If your employer is making you jump through hoops to take protected leave, or if you've been punished for asserting your rights, it’s time to talk to someone who understands New Jersey’s workplace laws inside and out.
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